Hello dear friends,
I've been away for quite awhile. My last entry was when my mother
was here visiting. She then got very ill and Hospice was called in. She has 24/7 care now and is doing remarkable well. She's a strong lady and will continue to live life!
My plan is to keep on blogging. It's my sanity, it's my peace, it's stress free and I love reading all of your wonderful blogs!
For now I feel compelled to share my husband's three stroke experiences. He had his 3rd stroke after Christmas on December 27th, 2015. His strokes have all been due to a blood disorder called Lupus Anticoagulant.
Maybe this story will help save someone's life. Prompt attention and calling 911 is crucial. What I want to encourage everyone to do is to pay attention to what your body is telling you. He saved his own life by calling 911.
3rd Stroke-
Sunday, December 27, 2014.
9 years to the day of 2nd stroke, he had his 3rd stroke.
I had driven down to the Valley from our home here in The Woodlands, Texas with our daughter Cari. We were going down to visit my mother who has been very ill. At 1:30 that Sunday, the 27th of December I received a call from EMS from The Woodlands, Texas. Mike had called 911 when he started feeling dizzy, had double vision, was nauseous. He knew he did not feel right. He saved his own life! EMS had to break in our home and found him on the floor and got him to the hospital. He saved his life by calling 911.
He felt different, he listened to his body and called 911. IMPORTANT. HE SAVED HIS LIFE.
Sunday, December 27, 2014.
9 years to the day of 2nd stroke, he had his 3rd stroke.
I had driven down to the Valley from our home here in The Woodlands, Texas with our daughter Cari. We were going down to visit my mother who has been very ill. At 1:30 that Sunday, the 27th of December I received a call from EMS from The Woodlands, Texas. Mike had called 911 when he started feeling dizzy, had double vision, was nauseous. He knew he did not feel right. He saved his own life! EMS had to break in our home and found him on the floor and got him to the hospital. He saved his life by calling 911.
He felt different, he listened to his body and called 911. IMPORTANT. HE SAVED HIS LIFE.
1st Stroke-
Mike's first stroke was December 17, 2006, he was just 57. He was driving and he started to feel different and he knew something was not right. He drove himself to Westlake Hospital and by the time he reached the door to ER, his body was already setting into a paralyzed state. They immediately transferred him by ambulance to St David's Hospital. They gave him the TPA clot busting drug within the three hour window. It is a miracle drug that can minimize stroke damage by dissolving the clot and improving blood flow. The drug worked. Thank God! I literally saw his body relax and respond to the drug within seconds. He was in St. David's Rehab Hospital for physical therapy for 10 days. He was to be released December 28th.
Mike's first stroke was December 17, 2006, he was just 57. He was driving and he started to feel different and he knew something was not right. He drove himself to Westlake Hospital and by the time he reached the door to ER, his body was already setting into a paralyzed state. They immediately transferred him by ambulance to St David's Hospital. They gave him the TPA clot busting drug within the three hour window. It is a miracle drug that can minimize stroke damage by dissolving the clot and improving blood flow. The drug worked. Thank God! I literally saw his body relax and respond to the drug within seconds. He was in St. David's Rehab Hospital for physical therapy for 10 days. He was to be released December 28th.
Remember, he felt different, he listened to his body and was around the corner from a hospital and drove himself there immediately. HE SAVED HIS LIFE.
2nd Stroke-
Not even being in the hospital helped him then. The worst thing happened the night before coming home. He had a second stroke in the hospital. The nurses thought he had fallen and they got him back in bed and did not call the doctor or me. They called me at 6:am to tell me he had fallen. OMG, I was there immediately and when I saw him and talked to him, I knew! I knew he had had a stroke! When the doctor arrived they ran tests and the worst was confirmed, he indeed had suffered a stroke. His entire right side was paralyzed to different degrees. He was in a rehab hospital for along time. With God's help, hours and hours of physical and speech therapy, he was able to talk, walk with a cane and drive again!
Not even being in the hospital helped him then. The worst thing happened the night before coming home. He had a second stroke in the hospital. The nurses thought he had fallen and they got him back in bed and did not call the doctor or me. They called me at 6:am to tell me he had fallen. OMG, I was there immediately and when I saw him and talked to him, I knew! I knew he had had a stroke! When the doctor arrived they ran tests and the worst was confirmed, he indeed had suffered a stroke. His entire right side was paralyzed to different degrees. He was in a rehab hospital for along time. With God's help, hours and hours of physical and speech therapy, he was able to talk, walk with a cane and drive again!
December 31, 2015
New Years Eve-
Mike got out of the hospital. He's home, he's a walking miracle. 2016 was started at home and out of the hospital! Praise God!
He is walking now with a new set of fancy wheels, a new walker with rollers and a seat! He started PT last week and I know with his determination, prayers, and God's help he will get there.
New Years Eve-
Mike got out of the hospital. He's home, he's a walking miracle. 2016 was started at home and out of the hospital! Praise God!
He is walking now with a new set of fancy wheels, a new walker with rollers and a seat! He started PT last week and I know with his determination, prayers, and God's help he will get there.
My message to each one of you is to listen to your body, listen to what it is telling you. If it feels odd, different, don't hesitate to go to the hospital or call 911.
Don't wait or hesitate.
Don't wait or hesitate.
Here's one of my favorite pictures of my husband at the ranch, our favorite place to spend time! He will be better in no time at all and we will be back to our little slice of heaven!
love the twinkle in his eyes~

Both Mr. Sweet and I take blood pressure meds and I am on Warfrin, to help ward off strokes.
ReplyDeleteBless his heart and yours...very strong people..and, besides, your man is a HUNK..and bet he looks pretty spiffy with that cane he's holding there. :)
God Bless him, you and all those you love.
xo
Nancy,
ReplyDeleteSo happy to hear that your hubby knows the signs of stroke and was able to help himself survive. Those first minutes are so crucial to act. Wow what a great story to share I hope this will help someone else by you posting his story.
Glad to hear your mom is doing better too. Hopefully as we enter into 2016 it will be a healthier year for your family.
Kris
Praise God for blessings multiplied! I continue to pray for your Sweet Man with the twinkle in his eye, for you and your Mom! Sending a big 'ole HUG from my heart to yours!
ReplyDeleteMy goodness, you have had a lot going on. My prayers are with you, your husband and your mom. Wishing all a speedy recovery.
ReplyDeleteTake care..all of you..so much..all at once!
ReplyDeleteI agree listen to your body and if your doctor ..or other specialist doesn't hear the same thing..s..find soemone else.
Oh, Nancy--You and your husband have been through so much and I didn't know, you are so strong. I think your post has really opened up eyes for anyone reading---I believe in taking the smart route and getting medical attention ASAP. Your husband is alive because of that and your advice is invaluable.
ReplyDeleteI pray for the best. Prayers and wishes for a healthy and happy New Year!
Jane xxx
Oh my Nancy you've been through so much since your last post. I'm sorry about your Mom's health and I pray for her continued improvement. I'm stunned about your husband but so glad to know he's okay. You are so right about "listen to your body". A few years ago one of my sisters had a sudden event that was later diagnosed as a mini stroke. It's a miracle she's okay because she just got in bed and rode it out. Both she and her husband didn't know what to make of it and as the symptoms eased they felt she was okay. She was darn lucky she didn't have any obvious side affects from it. Anyway I'm so glad for you that your husband is doing well and prayers going up for him. Goodness this has been so much for you to handle- I trust you are taking good care of yourself. Prayers for you and your continued strength through all of these challenges.
ReplyDeleteHello, I am sorry to hear about your husband and your Mom. Sending my prayers and well wishes for all! Thanks you for sharing the information, knowing the symptoms may save someone in the future.
ReplyDeleteTake care of yourself too. Happy Monday, enjoy your new week!
Praise Be he's going to do well tho!!! My gosh, such trauma, and heart ache and fear and emotional stress....for all of you. Your mother, your husband, and all I can think of is the fear you've experienced with all this.
ReplyDeleteI love seeing him smile!!
Y'all take care, pay attention to dr's orders, of course, but most of all, as you say repeatedly [thank you!] "Listen to your body!"
Nancy,
ReplyDeleteI am so very sorry to hear of the health concerns that your dear loved ones are experiencing now.
You are such a strong woman with a strong faith.
Thank you for sharing this information, knowing the symptoms can save lives.
Thinking of you and sending gentle prayers,
xo
Jemma
Oh bless your heart, Nancy. That is scary. Wow! You haven't had time to blog. I've heard about Lupus. I have a couple of friends with SLS but never heard of the one that your husband has. Prayers for you all indeed.
ReplyDeleteOh Nancy, what heartbreak. Between your Mother and Now Mike. Healing thoughts and prayers for all. I am so glad your Mike is home. Life sometimes throws up a curve. Take good care of yourself, while you are caring for your loved ones.
ReplyDeleteNancy,
ReplyDeletePrayers coming your way, dear friend, for your sweet husband!!!
My "Mr. Ed" suffered a stroke in August 2014. He had surgery in Nov. 2014,
went through several therapies and is now doing amazingly well!!!
Yes!!! Keep on blogging!!!
I'll be watching for updates!!!
Fondly,
Pat
keep going strong, handsome man! and pretty lady, keep the faith and love going! :) bless you with your mom, too.
ReplyDeleteOh Nancy, you two have been through so much. The story of having a stroke even while in the hospital and the caregivers not noticing?! was very disconcerting. What a smart guy, to instinctively know what to do, to take his body's signals seriously. Many blessings. Praise God for a good outcome.
ReplyDeleteYou have been thru so much....you are a very strong woman!!!! I'm so glad your husband is doing better. Thank you for the reminder to listen to that little voice that says something isn't quite right. I will say a prayer for you!
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I am so happy for you!! How I wish Pat could have been saved. There were signs but we didn't recognize them. I will miss him always.
ReplyDeleteI meant to mention your mother as well. God is smiling on you for sure! :)
ReplyDeleteGoose Bumps here . . .
ReplyDeleteTake heed each/all . . . listen to your body.
Pay attention . . .
Love the "sparkle" in those eyes!
Happy your mom is "chipper" too . . .
What a time you have had! I am so glad that your husband knew to listen to his body - and grateful to you for sharing this information. I knew nothing about this condition.
ReplyDeleteYou and I seem to be at a similar stage with our precious mothers........hanging in there and savouring every moment together.
It was good to read a post from you - and to have a visit to my last post from you. Take good care of yourself!
You are always such an inspiration.
ReplyDeleteSharing this helps everyone who reads it.
I am not surprised.
You help ME all of the time!
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Nancy you have experienced so very much lately. By sharing you have encouraged many to listen to their bodies and prevent a stroke. Your husband does have a wonderful twinkle, must be the love he feels for you that put it there. I am glad your Mom has improved. Be well and take care.
ReplyDeleteOh Nancy, bless your heart honey. I am so glad to hear that your husband is okay and your mom is better. Praying right now for your family. The Lord is showing so much compassion it looks like. "His compassion's are new every morning". Lamentations 3:22
ReplyDeleteHugs and blessings, Cindy
I'm glad your mother is doing so well and that your husband is home and also doing well. What a challenging time you have been through. Thanks for sharing his experience.
ReplyDeleteHello Nancy, I'm so sorry to hear this about your mom and your husband. And I'm glad to hear that your husband is doing better. This is a great picture of him. May the Lord comfort you during this difficult time with your loved ones. Yes, blogging seems to put a smile on our face when we need it the most. Glad to hear you're back.
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Nancy, bless your heart. I wish I could just give you a hug and make you some soup. You've been through a lot lately. You will definitely be in my thoughts and I'm glad you are posting again!
ReplyDeleteOh my dear. You are going through a very rough time. I'll pray for you, your mom, and your dear husband.
ReplyDeleteI'm so sorry you have been through this. My brother had a stroke when he was just 47 years old. They tried the miracle drug but it didn't really work for him. The stroke has affected his speech. He was in a long term rehab for about 6 months but it did wonders for him. He drives again! God was good to take care of him. He had finished driving a school bus full of kids 30 minutes before he had his.
ReplyDeleteI'm so glad your husband listened to his body and called 911. Prayers being said for you.
Your husband is a handsome man. He's a walking miracle; so glad his story has a happy ending! Your Mother is tucked in prayer...which God hears and answers. He has a Plan.
ReplyDeleteI signed up for e-mail when you post so I won't miss anything! I will be praying for your husband and especially that he doesn't EVER have another stroke!!!
ReplyDeleteThank you so much for sharing this about your husband and the strokes he's had. Thank the Lord he did call 911 and got to the hospital in time. I'm glad he is recovering and getting stronger each day. I'm sorry to read in your recent post of your mother's passing. God bless you with comfort and peace. We just never know when something will happen to us as we age and we really need to listen to our bodies and act if something even 'seems' amiss. Thanks for sharing. Blessings to you. Pam
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